Why Swish?

Prior to organising the AIDS Swish, I felt it necessary to gather my thoughts and explain the reasons for organising the event. This is why I did it, and why I hope the event should happen every year….

For the best part of the last decade, the gay community and to a wider extent, everybody else, has gone into a collective coma with regards to HIV/AIDS.  Activism is seemingly unnecessary, the disease is ‘manageable’, the stigma has declined, treatments have improved immeasurably…and yet these improvements come at price. The cost of this scenario is that it’s unfashionable and uncomfortable to remember those that died in less accommodating circumstances…and young people are still contracting HIV, mostly because it’s easier to catch it than avoid it- especially with the high rate of infected people in London. Unsafe sex is no longer the shocking taboo it once was. In some quarters, it’s hip.

The press are tired of reporting HIV news or prevention features, as it’s not particularly sexy and the readers would rather hear about something else. Neither party can be blamed for this, that’s just how it is. Statistics of infection rates are not a cheery read in these difficult times, so people just flick past such news, if it’s there at all. It’s easy to spot those articles, they tend to look unglamorous and have giveaway headlines. It is into this vacuum of denial and complacence that we enter and in order to spark even the slightest interest in the topic, one must invest a little creativity to force people to look away from the X Factor/the economy/Lady Gaga.

World AIDS Day? Just the mention of it and there’s a palpable collapse which punches my body and soul.  Those three words resurrect the buried ex-boyfriends, mates and their recurring health problems and 25 years of nerve-shredding HIV tests.  Throw in the pornification of bareback culture and a recent media story which implied that fish pedicures are akin to swallowing cum…and it’s hardly surprising that World AIDS Day inspires depression rather than fireworks.  Never mind the African babies, there’s enough AIDS in my yard to keep me busy for a lifetime.

When asked by the London AIDS Memorial Campaign to manage an event on World AIDS Day, I felt strongly that we should change the dynamic. A morbid procession or candle-lit trudge seems so ‘80s and quite frankly, if it doesn’t appeal to me, how can I expect others to attend. The idea is simple; as a community, we should dress up like we mean to party, then SWISH down Old Compton Street like people who enjoy and respect life. The AIDS Swish is an affirmation- we’re here and we care, not just about ourselves but each other. That sentiment is worth putting out there, with bells on, whatever your status.

Somewhere along the line, a tenuous sense of community morphed into a spirit which seems to shrug, ‘fuck you, fuck off, let’s get fucked’. It’s hard not to kick and push when fighting to get on a rush-hour tube and a self-induced coma via chemicals can seem preferable to a sober assessment of one’s life. You’ve got gonorrhoea? Fuck it, go the sauna and pay it forward. Other people’s sexual health ain’t your stuff, right? Fine. We get it. You’re angry. Tired. Us too. Who isn’t? The AIDS Swish is just 30 minutes or so of showing up, showing out and loving yourself, so you can love others.

The AIDS Swish is a demonstration of remembrance, pride, acknowledgement and community. In the past, commemoration often came draped in the traditions of a sombre funeral and sad contemplation. In a time of mass grieving and exhausting struggle, this was entirely appropriate. But those sentiments are not likely to chime with many people under 30, or have any relevance whatsoever to today’s teenagers, who are unlikely to have seen somebody die from HIV/AIDS. To call this event, The AIDS Walk, AIDS March or AIDS Procession would be to immediately alienate a large part of the community who’re highly astute at switching off at the sound of anything grimly familiar. To young people, it would mean nothing whatsoever, just old gays harping on.

‘Swish’ was once a slang term from pre-Stonewall days to describe men who did little to hide their sexuality.  Post-Stonewall, as gay men became less defined in their roles, ‘swish’ left the queer lexicon and was adopted by mainstream culture to mean ‘posh’, high cultured, possibly camp and refined. As a verb; SWISH is to move somewhat regally and with confidence.

Most recently, swish has taken on an empowering and action-oriented meaning within the U.S. LGBT rights movement. To swish is to create opportunities for people who’re straight to become active in the LGBT civil rights movement. It embodies a form of activism that’s uplifting, rewarding and fun. Eg. “I swish because all LGBT people deserve to live and love equally.” One might say that Ben Cohen gave up rugby to swish- he currently campaigns to remove homophobia from sport and highlight gay bullying at schools.

The AIDS Swish is about celebrating the lives of those we have lost and in a subtle way, reminding people that while the disease is less destructive than it was, it can still be fatal.  The vibe of The Swish is more carnival than funeral and hopefully this will encourage more people to engage with the event.

In keeping with a theme of celebration in addition to remembrance, Swishers will be encouraged to carry glo-sticks, rather than candles, which will not only be more practical, but are a nod to those in club culture we have lost and those who are immersed in it now.  It will also look great for photographers. Attendees will be encouraged to dress up, be colourful, eye catching and fun. Drag queens, club kids, Soho characters and subcultural icons should be encouraged to give energy and texture to the Swish. People should want to attend this event because it will be attractive and fun, rather than feel indebted, guilty or resigned to it.

The AIDS Swish as a name and concept is wilfully provocative and playful, it catches the ear, makes one think and hopefully smile and wonder. Everybody knows what an AIDS Memorial Procession looks like, but until this event happens, nobody will have seen or heard of an AIDS Swish. That makes it interesting to both the press and public, and anything which brings the topic back into consciousness should be encouraged. Hopefully, the AIDS Swish will be memorable, colourful and thought provoking, engaging all corners of the community and will be an event which inspires people to connect with the issues at hand, even if only for 30 minutes or so.

Stewart Who? (LAMC Marketing/Events Manager)

Mandy Webb – Unashamedly Positive…WORLD AIDS DAY

Here I am with musician/lead singer Dan Gillespie-Sells of band THE FEELING who attended The LONDON AIDS MEMORIAL LOVE LETTERS Launch on 29th November 2011.

Lucky me! Such a supportive guy.

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This year 2011 has been my 10th World AIDS Day as one of the survivors of this wicked ugly disease. I went a long time undiagnosed, flying under the radar so to speak but this disease even then unknowingly of my own status has had a massive impact on me. Not in the sense that I had lost anyone close to me, I’d never met anyone Positive until I was diagnosed. But I watched as many others on the TV the sad deaths of Rock Hudson, the papers reporting that Freddie Mercury had AIDS in those big scary letters filling the headline of the paper and the next day when it was reported that he, too, had died, I felt like I had lost someone. I didn’t know Freddie Mercury on a personal basis, but he had given me the Music through my childhood into adulthood which I have passed onto my son. I remember seeing ‘Queen’ in concert, it was the most wonderful experience ever and even now when I think about it I remember the adrenaline rush as the music started and the lightshow, the trepidation of everyone around me. We all for that concert had so much in common which was our admiration for These Rock Gods, as I like to call them. I loved the showmanship, the glitz, the glamour.

This year has been 20 years since the death of Freddie and it is more than likely that this time 20 years ago was when I first became infected??? I can’t say for sure but is very probable?

I think myself in some ways that not being diagnosed sooner has in some way been kinder for me as had I’d been diagnosed all those years ago, I would have come into contact with lots of Positive People and would have been bonding friendships and sadly watching this disease take these people from me. As I see and hear from other people I know when they talk about their losses and the many Funerals they attended and how frightening it was to call anyone as worried that they too may have died?

Yes, I have been spared these painful memories but I can relate and feel that we have to Honour all of these people. This is why I have gotten involved with The London AIDS Memorial as I think it’s long overdue. We need somewhere that we can go to remember that this disease has taken so many lives, all different Races, different Genders, different Sexual Orientations, different ages, different backgrounds. This Memorial is not only for the Dead, but extremely important for the ones still trying to survive this cruel disease and a constant reminder to Raise Awareness that HIV/AIDS is still out there and doesn’t discriminate…Anyone can be Infected, Anyone can be Affected!!!

This week has been busy; I spoke to a group of people at a club off Leicester Square in London about ‘The Red Ribbon Dress Project‘ and how important this Legacy piece is. I have already had a few dedications through the post, which is quite upsetting to read the heartfelt messages. I bought two large books yesterday that were images of ‘The Names Project’ with images of the panels from the Memorial Quilts and sat reading it on the train as I travelled back from London. I loved the camaraderie that this devastating thing did in the way it brought so many people together, the network of the Quilt stitching party, the donations from companies supplying materials/sequins/needles and thread etc etc, the donation of people’s time. Some of these people didn’t even know any of the people that were suffering but wanted to do whatever they could to remember them. It was also difficult to read how some people didn’t want their Surnames on the Quilt as they feared their families would be ostracized or victims of hate crimes!!!

This is why I am reminded of what I do and why I do it, I feel very privileged to have survived and be able to talk openly about this disease. I am a Face of HIV who also happened to have had an AIDS diagnosis all those years ago. I know that I am here to Raise Awareness, to Educate further generations and hopefully change stigma and discrimination. It’s a big job and an even bigger responsibility, but I will do what I can.

I have attached an image of a piece of work I completed a couple of months ago. It resembles a Quilt panel and is made up of 24 images and information of qell known people that have sadly died from HIV/AIDS. There are only 24 images as I can only work on a small scale at the moment as lack of space. I wanted to represent the people who were larger than life in my childhood. People I admired. People who made me laugh. People who gave me the Music. People who gave me the love of Glitz and Glamour.

There are also People who I became aware of through all the research on becoming Positive myself. Ryan White/Elizabeth Glaser/Alison Gertz.

I thank all these people for enlightening my life.

This is for them.

We are not aware of the many People that are still dying every day/getting diagnosed Positive on a personal basis but the RED RIBBON DRESS IS FOR EVERYONE….

Art is Life, Life is Art

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MANDY WEB  is Pop -Up Arts Curator for The LONDON AIDS MEMORIAL

This article first appeared on *a girl like me – a program of the well project http://girllikeme.org/2011/12/02/unashamedly-positiveworld-aids-day/

QX Front Cover for THE SWISH on WAD

London’s QX Magazine,  has supported our Campaign by putting us on the FRONT COVER. Online too! As many of you know QX is a FREE MAGAZINE available in SOHO area LGBT Bars so we couldn’t have wished for better for THE SWISH.

The shoot was Directed by Stewart Who? our fabulous EVENT MANAGER and shot by award winning photographer MAGNUS HASTINGS on a bleary-eyed 11 am on a Sunday morning.

Didn’t they do well! ( especially after post-clubbing)

Many, many thanks to all the *models* – real scene people you know, who gave up their time for THE LONDON AIDS MEMORIAL and did it all for FREE! We really OWE IT TO THEM this time. Bravo.

Are you going to SWISH for AIDS? December 1 2011

Are you going to SWISH on December 1st? Are you going to strut, swagger, shimmy, roller skate, stride, mince or sashay? We don’t care. We just want you to be there.

The AIDS Swish is a street carnival of remembrance, pride and community. The Swish also signals the start of all the events occurring in the bars for Soho Red Thursday.  The idea is simple; as a community, we dress up like we mean to party, then SWISH down Old Compton Street in colourful acknowledgement that we enjoy and respect life. The AIDS Swish is an affirmation- we’re here and we care, not just about ourselves but each other.  _______________________________________________________________________________________

The Swish starts at 6pm at the junction of Moor Street and Old Compton Street (Ed’s Diner).  We’ll SWISH down Old Compton Street, turn right into Wardour Street and the Post Swish Finish is at Lo Profile where there’ll be a surprise performance, a keynote speaker and a celebratory drink. At 8pm, to signify the completion of The Swish, all the bars in Soho will play Gloria Gaynor’s ‘I Will Survive’. 

Swishers are encouraged to carry glo-sticks for the duration of the event and to dress up, be creative, eye catching and fun. The AIDS Swish aims to be memorable, colourful and thought provoking, engaging all corners of the community and inspires people to connect with the issues at hand, even if only for 30 minutes or so.

World AIDS Day Thursday December 1st 6pm (junction of Moor St/Old Compton St. –Ed’s Diner)

Post Swish Finish at Lo Profile (84-86 Wardour St,  London, W1F 0TQ)

The SWISH is not a fund raising event and not connected to any charity. Many charities will be collecting on that day, it’s simply a method of raising awareness that as yet, London has no permanent AIDS Memorial, where people can gather at any time, from any country, for any reason of remembrance. The London AIDS Memorial Campaign aim to hold the SWISH as an annual event until a permanent space is achieved.

Where: Junction of Moor Street/Old Compton St. (Ed’s Diner)SOHO

When: 6pm, Thursday December 1st

LOVE LETTERS PROJECT LAUNCH

THE LONDON AIDS MEMORIAL CAMPAIGN (LAMC) invites you to attend the launch of LOVE LETTERS, a multi media project to create a new century LONDON QUILT, based on the 1980’90′s AIDS Quilt concept that acted as a memorial to those who died of AIDS in the latter part of the 20th Century.

On Tuesday 29th November we will be hosting the first of many events to promote our Campaign. Come along and meet the LAMC team, ask questions, hear LOVE LETTERS read out, share your memories, listen to how we propose to create a permanent LONDON AIDS MEMORIAL and join our helpers list of skills.

Artist Mandy Webb, our Curator of Installations will explain her own LOVE LETTER in the form of a ribbon dress adorned with loving messages and Dickie Beau will perform his LOVE LETTER to those who passed before our eyes.

Utilising new technologies LOVE LETTERS expands the vision of one dimensional memories into a movable, ever changing installation, that represents the creative diversity at the heart of London.

Pop-up-performances will occur throughout Olympic year 2012, in bars, clubs, creative spaces, galleries and on Twitter, Facebook, You Tube and other networking avenues. Everyone, not just from London, has a chance to take part, reflect and offer something of their experiences with HIV/AIDS and collectively these experiences will be stored as a permanent display of remembrance.

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London’s Dickie Beau will be presenting a unique LOVE LETTERS Performance to celebrate the start of our Official Campaign Launch.

” Phenomenal talent . . . powerful & moving artist . . . BREATHTAKING . . .”
TIME OUT London
www.dickiebeau.com/Dickie_Beau/Dickie_Who.html

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Music provided by Tris Penna & TheMenWHoFell2Earth DJs.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/TheMenWhoFell2Earth/204271409615509?ref=ts&sk=wall

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Tuesday 29th November
6:30pm – 8:30pm@ KU KLUB / Ku Bar 30 Lisle Street London, WC2H 7BA


We owe it to them.

Dickie Beau supports our Campaign

AWARD WINNING Performance Artist DICKIE BEAU will be performing his own LOVE LETTER tribute at our launch on November 29th 2011.

World AIDS Day December 1st 2010

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